its amazing to have that bond with people where you can be honest and not be afraid to be yourself. or be afraid to open up cause your scared they might leave. or worse get hurt.
though lesson learnt the hard way pain and an adversary that does not kill you, will definitely make you stronger. maybe more vengeful even.
p.s: im still waiting for the words to turn into actions. and then maybe i can trust you.
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it IS amazing to have people around who you can be honest and just-be-yourself with!
but yea.. opening up to people who end up not caring..or worse hurting you.. is ... heartbreaking..
esp if you expected them to be better than that..
heres something i read somewhere ... been following it and seems to work for me.. in tricky times when you dont know if you should open up/close down to people.. say this to yourself.. :)
"Distance tests a horse's strength. Time reveals a person's character"
and yes...actions speak louder.. but i find myself trying to focus on the intent nowadays...
i ask the person or ask myself..."what is the intent here?" or "what do you intend to do?" and i find good answers..
root cause of problems EXPECTATIONS! if you didnt care wht they did with the opening up then you wouldnt get hurt in the first place.
how can u question a persons intent?? i mean unless their words translate into actions i dont see much happning.. i mean you can so much. but do nothing about it. which is fine when it your life only in the reckoning.. but when some one else's choice/ life might get affected it just sucks.
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