| The Keys to Your Heart |
 You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free. In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored. You'd like to your lover to think you are stylish and alluring. You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please. Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets. Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment. You think of marriage as something that will confine you. You are afraid of marriage. In this moment, you think of love as something you can get or discard anytime. You're feeling self centered. |
Thursday, January 26, 2006
key to my heart
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4 comments:
Firstly...one question...ARE U AFRAID OF MARRIAGE? :O
(ok now...didnt mean to embarras you or somethin...jus a genuine doubt...u can send me a virtual slap-on-the-face for this if want to ...lol )
AND for the record...i shiver when i hear of marriage......or its jus that i havent found a worthy reason to justify it ...(YEAH...BOYS WILL BE BOYS !...LACK OF COMMITMENT...BLAH BLAH BLAH...)
Secondly...
"Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets....
You would never break a commitment."
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT KEEPS PPL TOGETHER 100%....
what married ppl tend to forget is that the marriage is for them,not for societal recognition....its deeply personal...its when the 'me' and the 'you' overshadows the 'us' relationships,that they fail.
i think im more commitment phobic than most men around... im serious about this btw...
and yeah trust and openess are two things i require in any relationship... there are no two ways about this..
p.s: i dont get embarassed easily so its cool...:)so no slap... as of now.
i guess thats why 'live-in' scenarios are an attractive option for the commitment phobic ppl.
that way have the best of both worlds.get to know each other while maitaining control over ur life.
i say its better than marriage.
hell yeah its better than marriage... but u know it creates the same bond as a marriage would i guess.. and if it doesn't work you have the same trauma and anguish to deal with... but this time you may also have social ostracization to boot!
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