yesterday watched 'mitr- friend', and wasnt impressed in the least. have no idea why i thought the film would be great.. but anyway. what really irritated me was the ending.. not once do either the husband or the wife think of the conseqences of understanding another person better than their own spouse. lets just say that the person he/she was chatting with wasnt the spouse.. then would it have still been a happy ending?? and when shobana does question her husband saying that he had the time to visit some faceless woman from the internet for a rendevous.. cant we say the same about her? but not once do they wonder what would happen if the person they connect with was someone else..
no i am not being some moral police.. just wondering how two people can continue in a relationship when they think that their spouse/ partner connects with someone else better. isnt it worse if you partner connects better with someone else than you, than knowing that your partner cheated on you (had a physical relationship with someoneelse..)??
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isnt it worse if you partner connects better with someone else than you, than knowing that your partner cheated on you (had a physical relationship with someone else
Totally!
I remember the movie, and thought the ending was fudged up a bit, and more like playing it safe.
Absolutely ! I agree with rads on the playing it safe bit, I didn't think they wanted to explore the possibility of two relationships breaking when they were set to make a moral out of it..
actually the physical relationship might cause more problems...
there are people we connect with, and there are people you love....and its only if ur dead sure(at least in that moment ) that some person is a mix of both that u get physical.
if ur wilin to get physical it means,in the current relationship...ur not gettin what u wanted and u'd rather explore other means of gettin the love than tryin to "make it work".love is lost.
yes technically i completely agree that once u stop relating to each other...the relationship is jus for namesake....might as well call it cheating....but gettin physical jus seals the deal.actions speak louder than.
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